The Thinking Other Woman

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The Crucible

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on February 16, 2023 at 6:35 AM

This will probably be the last transit analysis I will do on these three charts. There won't be any need to do another one.

Astrology suggests there is about to be a make-or-break turning point in the situation. On April 27th, Jupiter will exactly hit the tip of my yod, which means it will exactly boomerang his yod. (Actually this period starts on the 22nd and goes through May 1st.)

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No more hearts, but a song

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 30, 2023 at 12:05 AM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zIUXuo0xd5k&list=PL3QK-FeOu2cdt-9d3Z4aIon3o0k-RNtAF&index=10" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zIUXuo0xd5k&list=PL3QK-FeOu2cdt-9d3Z4aIon3o0k-RNtAF&index=10

Boy, is THIS a scary idea ...

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 26, 2023 at 6:25 PM

So I'm listening to tarot readings, and I'm getting this weird one.


I get the choice to stay on this path or let it die and go down a new one.


Which doesn't make much sense, because this path is GONE and not coming back. And I sure as fuck don't see some wonderful new creative beginning ahead of me. I have no creativity and I've given up all the old ideas I used to have about what I wanted to do. None of those are any ...

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A Beautiful and Searingly Real Quote.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 26, 2023 at 4:50 PM

 

"Then said Almitra, speak to us of love. And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and there fell a stillness upon them. And with a great voice he said, When love beckons to you, follow him. Though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you, believe him, Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north win...

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A very truthful Easter Egg

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 26, 2023 at 10:35 AM

https://medium.com/@jamesmsama/never-make-your-partner-feel-these-12-things-b4e78be08d46" target="_blank">https://medium.com/@jamesmsama/never-make-your-partner-feel-these-12-things-b4e78be08d46

This message is for you.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 24, 2023 at 10:30 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSsttaccooM" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSsttaccooM

End, Windup, Finish.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 23, 2023 at 9:05 PM

I have a comfy green couch that's destined for the scrap heap in just a week or two. 


I'm very sad about that, not only because I love the color, but because of the significance of this couch and how and why I originally bought it. I've had it almost exactly eight years.


Shortly after I and the pers...

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Are You Settling for the Wrong Person?

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 23, 2023 at 8:25 AM

https://penandblot.medium.com/8-powerful-signs-youre-settling-for-the-wrong-person-c46e4b0d0c83" target="_blank">https://penandblot.medium.com/8-powerful-signs-youre-settling-for-the-wrong-person-c46e4b0d0c83

Good Tenets to Live By

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 22, 2023 at 10:35 PM

https://medium.com/@rodr4860/the-reason-no-one-likes-online-dating-is-simple-437bf16222be" target="_blank">https://medium.com/@rodr4860/the-reason-no-one-likes-online-dating-is-simple-437bf16222be

Easter Egg

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 21, 2023 at 11:00 PM

https://medium.com/hello-love/5-signs-that-youre-asking-the-wrong-person-to-love-you-9ac14839950c" target="_blank">https://medium.com/hello-love/5-signs-that-youre-asking-the-wrong-person-to-love-you-9ac14839950c

A VERY IMPORTANT EASTER EGG FROM MARIE MURPHY, PH.D.!!

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 20, 2023 at 12:35 AM

"What I’m going to offer you now is a set of practices for being with someone you care about when they’re experiencing discomfort, which can be especially useful when you are pretty obviously the occasion of their discomfort. Let’s say, for instance, that you’ve just told your spouse you want a divorce. Your spouse is upset. What can you actually do in that situation?"

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There Was Never Any Point Waiting For This Guy. Never, Ever, Ever.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 19, 2023 at 2:10 AM

*Sorry, y'all. This blog is getting wonky, with lapses of formatting I can't fix.

"The end really weighed heavily on my heart. I would have done anything to save my ex. She didn't know how special she really was."

--anonymous poster on the internet.

So, it's finally time to give up.



It really is t...

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The Perspective of the Married Man

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 19, 2023 at 1:55 AM

No, this isn't MY married man, but it is the ex-affair partner of a woman I follow on Medium.

https://medium.com/@Tullia/after-the-affair-ends-the-married-mans-perspective-afa8677cc31c" target="_blank">https://medium.com/@Tullia/after-the-affair-ends-the-married-mans-perspective-afa8677cc31c

Isn't It Shallow to Divorce over Lack of Sex?

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 18, 2023 at 3:45 AM

You know, I'd really, REALLY listen to this podcast if I were you ...

https://open.spotify.com/episode/7aovFcnH9krbdH4qiUyLvU?si=6462121ec9554184&nd=1" target="_blank">https://open.spotify.com/episode/7aovFcnH9krbdH4qiUyLvU?si=6462121ec9554184&nd=1

Jonice Webb on Emotional Neglect in Marriage

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 18, 2023 at 3:10 AM

And then we wonder why people have affairs ...


https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/childhood-emotional-neglect/202212/what-does-emotional-neglect-look-in-marriage" target="_blank">https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/childhood-emotional-neglect/202212/what-does-emotional-neglect-look-in-marriage

Yup ... this is you, all right.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 16, 2023 at 10:15 PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XrucIXZEpF4&list=TLPQMTcwMTIwMjNSYb-02eEleQ&index=3" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XrucIXZEpF4&list=TLPQMTcwMTIwMjNSYb-02eEleQ&index=3

A Viewpoint I TOTALLY Agree With

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 16, 2023 at 8:35 AM

https://medium.com/@Tullia/i-believe-that-most-affairs-are-exit-affairs-8664a498828b" target="_blank">https://medium.com/@Tullia/i-believe-that-most-affairs-are-exit-affairs-8664a498828b

Easter Egg--Marie Murphy, Ph.D.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on January 15, 2023 at 8:10 PM

If you’re worried that other people will judge you for your infidelity situation, your concerns might not be unfounded.


Let’s say you’re married, and you’re involved with someone else, and you know in your bones that you don’t want to be married to your spouse anymore – and you really want to have the opportunity to give your relationship with your affair p...

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