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It's Bad Actors Who Try the Hardest to Look Good

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 27, 2022 at 5:35 PM

Is This Me?



Walter Rhein was writing about divorced people when he said this, but if you're the Other Person in a third-party situation, I think it also applies.


The thing h...

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Quote of the Day

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 25, 2022 at 9:15 PM

"I loved him and didn’t want to go, but I’ve learned the hard way that you cannot save a relationship that the other person isn’t even trying to save. You can only accept what is and save yourself."

-- Crystal Jackson.


HERE'S WHEN IT'S TIME TO WALK AWAY

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 20, 2022 at 5:40 AM

https://medium.com/curious/5-signs-its-time-to-say-enough-and-walk-away-e6304a335ecb" target="_blank">https://medium.com/curious/5-signs-its-time-to-say-enough-and-walk-away-e6304a335ecb


https://medium.com/illumination/the-imperfect-match-why-avoidant-and-anxious-people-attract-each-other-55c7cfd9b003" target="_blank">https://medium.com/illumination/the-imperfect-match-why-avoidant-and-anxious-people-attract-each-other-55c7cfd9b003

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From the Words of Wisdom File: The Sexless Marriage

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 18, 2022 at 8:10 PM

https://www.drpsychmom.com/2021/04/17/how-can-you-handle-your-partners-decision-not-to-have-sex-anymore-in-a-healthy-way/" target="_blank">https://www.drpsychmom.com/2021/04/17/how-can-you-handle-your-partners-decision-not-to-have-sex-anymore-in-a-healthy-way/

I Need a New Mantra.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 5, 2022 at 5:35 PM

Don'tcha just motherfucking HATE life???


Very often I see this perspective that life isn't going to get better for us unless and until we "Just Believe!!!!"


However, everything I've

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Quote of the Day

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 4, 2022 at 1:10 PM

“I thought my parents would love me more as a child. So I couldn’t become an adult.”

--Nagata Kabi

Wisdom

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on October 30, 2022 at 9:30 AM
Lately I haven't been writing a lot of my own thoughts on here but 
reposting someone else's. I do that when I find something particularly 
thought-provoking or valuable because, let's face it, all ...
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