The Thinking Other Woman

The thing about tarot readings is, whether you believe in them or not, they make you think. 

The one I just posted talks about my life being like scorched earth for a very long time. Boy, is THAT ever correct. It also talks about the idea that thinking some other person was supposed to come in and be everything that makes a fulfilling life ... maybe not being the best ...

Her:

Jupiter square itself: A tendency toward excess. Tests your understanding of the world in that if you have gotten overconfident, you could have financial (or other) problems.

Jupiter square Uranus: A sudden change in life direction or a sudden change in fortune. It coul...

I had posted this earlier, but I mixed natal things in the charts together with the transit that is about to come through: Jupiter hitting the apex of my yod and boomeranging his. I keep trying to pound and pound and pound into my soul that IT'S TIME TO GIVE UP. I know there's no hope here, and I'm about to receive incontrovertible proof. We all know twin flames just teach horrible, painful lessons and don't work out. Time to swallow that for goo...

Well, the person this blog is about finally broke a record. He hasn't been absent here for more than two months in ... seven years? I think so.

But, now he's done it. Interesting that his last visit here that I can prove was December 30th. (I did get something weird on Valentine's Day, but who knows?)

This will probably be the last transit analysis I will do on these three charts. There won't be any need to do another one.

Astrology suggests there is about to be a make-or-break turning point in the situation. On April 27th, Jupiter will exactly hit the tip of my yod, which means it will exactly boomerang his yod. (Actually this period starts on the 22nd and goes through May 1st.)

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*Sorry, y'all. This blog is getting wonky, with lapses of formatting I can't fix.

"The end really weighed heavily on my heart. I would have done anything to save my ex. She didn't know how special she really was."

--anonymous poster on the internet.

So, it's finally time to give up.

It really is t...

On the 24th of January, it will be a full eight years since we first said I Love You in emails to one another. Every year on this date, I used to put a heart up on my old Facebook profile we corresponded on. I did that on his birthday, too. In case he ever went there and saw them. I don't think I will this year. 

For me, hate to say it but it's been eight years of hell.

And Why Was I Supposed to Exist?

Don't get me wrong, I know why we exist. We are supposed to be born helpless human babies on Planet Earth, get messed up and deeply psychologically wounded by parents who were wounded themselves, and then spend the rest of our lives consciously growing ourselves up and fixing the wounds we grew up with.

(And, you know, I know you're here so you might as well just read it. Sheesh.)

So, in my ongoing writing-about-infidelity career on Medium and YourTango, I often find myself railing against the common assertion that "Infidelity is ABUSE!!!" while the cheated-on person pretty much can treat the cheater A-N-Y way they please both before AND ...

Don'tcha just motherfucking HATE life???

Very often I see this perspective that life isn't going to get better for us unless and until we "Just Believe!!!!"

However, everything I've

Edit: 11/11/22. Yep. He was here. About three days after this, but still. Nobody else would go directly to this ONE post as if he'd bookmarked it.

Some call this date "the eleven-eleven portal." Trivia.

This is going to be an “open letter” because this person doesn’t visit here anymore. I’m sure he won’t come back and will never see it.

I did this. I was the one who asked you WTF you were still hanging about for if you were never going to speak. But, from my point of view, I had to.

So after something astounding like I just wrote about in the last blog (who would expect THAT after almost eight years??), I knew there had to be some interesting astrology attached, and ... there was.

Transits to the Davison for 10/16/22: Mercury return. North Node conj Moon. Moon square Mercury. Jupiter opp Mercury. Sun and Venus are about to conj Mars but are still 2-4 degrees away. Venus opp Jupiter. Saturn return. Uranus square Satu...

It's Crucible Time.

When you look at our ages, when you look at the astrology, when you look at the tarot cards, everything says the same thing.

We only have but so long to make crucial changes in our lives, before old age and dementia set in. He's going to be 64. Not much time left. ...

So, suddenly a crisis has come up at work. Not sure exactly why, but management has suddenly gone completely off the rails and begun attacking long-time employees in a savage and unprofessional manner.

A bunch of us are forming a union of sorts to demand change, but I expect that this will not work and most likely we will all be looking for jobs very soon. I have been drafted to write the letter from the staff, so I am working on that th...

I think I’ve just been through way, way too much in life.

I know this guy is gone. Last seen: September 6 that I know of. Since then, there have been a couple of interesting visits by a person or persons who, hiding behind a VPN, have read my late...

I don't know if you're going to come back here, but you have twice now, and I've been told I need to leave you a message, so here it is:

IF YOU WOULD FUCKING TALK TO ME, I WILL STILL TALK TO YOU.

(This offer will expire. Eight years is a long fucking time.)

https://medium.com/@hamilton.nic/letting-go-over-and-over-3fb4de4dab3c

A little over seven years ago this person moved out of their house with the intent to be with me.

This didn't last, of course. (When does it ever?) After he moved out, his very emotionally distant wife, once she was done crying, went around telling everyone he was "depressed" and "crazy," yet insisted on marriage c...