The Thinking Other Woman

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Is there a third time charm??

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 30, 2022 at 8:05 PM

It's Bad Actors Who Try the Hardest to Look Good

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 27, 2022 at 5:35 PM

Is This Me?



Walter Rhein was writing about divorced people when he said this, but if you're the Other Person in a third-party situation, I think it also applies.


The thing h...

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Group 3

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 27, 2022 at 12:45 AM

No bullshit.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vw6kUJ0PwWY&t=9s" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vw6kUJ0PwWY&t=9s

Today

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 26, 2022 at 7:45 PM

I dream about you, too.

Quote of the Day

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 25, 2022 at 9:15 PM

"I loved him and didn’t want to go, but I’ve learned the hard way that you cannot save a relationship that the other person isn’t even trying to save. You can only accept what is and save yourself."

-- Crystal Jackson.


Well, THIS Experience Was Really Sad ...

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 23, 2022 at 10:15 PM

(And, you know, I know you're here so you might as well just read it. Sheesh.)

So, in my ongoing writing-about-infidelity career on Medium and YourTango, I often find myself railing against the common assertion that "Infidelity is ABUSE!!!" while the cheated-on person pretty much can treat the cheater A-N-Y way they please both before AND ...

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HERE'S WHEN IT'S TIME TO WALK AWAY

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 20, 2022 at 5:40 AM

https://medium.com/curious/5-signs-its-time-to-say-enough-and-walk-away-e6304a335ecb" target="_blank">https://medium.com/curious/5-signs-its-time-to-say-enough-and-walk-away-e6304a335ecb


https://medium.com/illumination/the-imperfect-match-why-avoidant-and-anxious-people-attract-each-other-55c7cfd9b003" target="_blank">https://medium.com/illumination/the-imperfect-match-why-avoidant-and-anxious-people-attract-each-other-55c7cfd9b003

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Last time I noticed something like this there was something to report, so here's another one ...

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 19, 2022 at 4:40 PM


... those who know something about astrology might appreciate something BIGGER about these transits than those posted previously.

EDIT: He showed up here on the 29th. Venus was one degree past the MC. NEXT UP: THE SUN.

I have to tell you, tar...
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From the Words of Wisdom File: The Sexless Marriage

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 18, 2022 at 8:10 PM

https://www.drpsychmom.com/2021/04/17/how-can-you-handle-your-partners-decision-not-to-have-sex-anymore-in-a-healthy-way/" target="_blank">https://www.drpsychmom.com/2021/04/17/how-can-you-handle-your-partners-decision-not-to-have-sex-anymore-in-a-healthy-way/

There's nothing you can do about a person like this.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 14, 2022 at 9:45 PM

Abandon hope all ye who enter here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gmTa0f8nDM

If you want to talk to me, will you PLEASE just fucking TALK????

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 9, 2022 at 8:00 AM

There's a contact box on this website.

Jesus fucking Christ.
AAAAUUUUUGGGHHHH!!!!!!!

(I'm okay now.) ;)

A Word About the Astrology

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 6, 2022 at 9:10 AM

So, from the way this all has shaken out, it would be tempting for many to say astrology is bunk because we didn't end up together.


Ah, not so.


Sorry to burst the skeptic bubble, but wayyy too many things did happen that were in our transits to be coincidence. Astrology paints wayyy

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