The Thinking Other Woman

Is This Me?

Walter Rhein was writing about divorced people when he said this, but if you're the Other Person in a third-party situation, I think it also applies.

The thing h...

No bullshit.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vw6kUJ0PwWY&t=9s" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vw6kUJ0PwWY&t=9s

I dream about you, too.

"I loved him and didn’t want to go, but I’ve learned the hard way that you cannot save a relationship that the other person isn’t even trying to save. You can only accept what is and save yourself."

-- Crystal Jackson.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZT0nioquVI" target="_blank">http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZT0nioquVI

https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/post/uniquely-difficult-situations-in-life?postId=93ac545f-3a13-4c5a-a295-c59fe143a62e&utm_campaign=d3e3c230-27d3-4f07-ae2c-24fcbffeb7e0&utm_source=so&utm_medium=mail&utm_content=a2e31a20-164b-4da2-a1fc-5a8a1b3ce902&cid=3eb97bf7-5fe5-4471-b923-bc3513e8f867" target="_blank">http://https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/post/uniquely-difficult-situations-in-life?postId=93ac545f-3a13-4c5a-a295-c59fe143a62e&utm_campaign=d3e3c230-27d3-...

(And, you know, I know you're here so you might as well just read it. Sheesh.)

So, in my ongoing writing-about-infidelity career on Medium and YourTango, I often find myself railing against the common assertion that "Infidelity is ABUSE!!!" while the cheated-on person pretty much can treat the cheater A-N-Y way they please both before AND ...

https://www.drpsychmom.com/2022/11/19/10-signs-your-wife-is-just-not-that-into-you/" target="_blank">http://https://www.drpsychmom.com/2022/11/19/10-signs-your-wife-is-just-not-that-into-you/

https://medium.com/illumination-curated/youre-everything-to-me-is-a-warning-you-re-walking-down-a-dead-end-road-4e8e376ed76d" target="_blank">http://https://medium.com/illumination-curated/youre-everything-to-me-is-a-warning-you-re-walking-down-a-dead-end-road-4e8e376ed76d

https://medium.com/curious/5-signs-its-time-to-say-enough-and-walk-away-e6304a335ecb" target="_blank">https://medium.com/curious/5-signs-its-time-to-say-enough-and-walk-away-e6304a335ecb

https://medium.com/illumination/the-imperfect-match-why-avoidant-and-anxious-people-attract-each-other-55c7cfd9b003" target="_blank">https://medium.com/illumination/the-imperfect-match-why-avoidant-and-anxious-people-attract-each-other-55c7cfd9b003

https://www.drpsychmom.com/2021/04/17/how-can-you-handle-your-partners-decision-not-to-have-sex-anymore-in-a-healthy-way/" target="_blank">https://www.drpsychmom.com/2021/04/17/how-can-you-handle-your-partners-decision-not-to-have-sex-anymore-in-a-healthy-way/

Abandon hope all ye who enter here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gmTa0f8nDM

It does to me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i54sA2kuVTs

https://medium.com/@laurenhsweeney/i-betrayed-my-followers-when-i-got-divorced-971b4b8c1255

https://medium.com/@laurenhsweeney/the-affair-you-didnt-see-coming-f403b852afff

There's a contact box on this website.

Jesus fucking Christ. AAAAUUUUUGGGHHHH!!!!!!!

(I'm okay now.) 

https://markemilee.medium.com/how-do-you-get-unstuck-and-find-the-passion-and-zest-for-life-again-b1747ec0ace9

So, from the way this all has shaken out, it would be tempting for many to say astrology is bunk because we didn't end up together.

Ah, not so.

Sorry to burst the skeptic bubble, but wayyy too many things did happen that were in our transits to be coincidence. Astrology paints wayyy