The Thinking Other Woman

If I hadn't seen a certain pattern of hits on here YET AGAIN (what did I say about this person disappearing for two months and then here he is again?) I would not believe a certain message I have received. But, I DO see the hits, therefore I tend to believe the message.

So, I need to leave this message:

Might as well talk about the astrology of the next three years. There’s a big split in the transits for all three people in our triangle that starts right about now. Make no mistake, the major period of action doesn’t start until this time next year, and it goes for two years … but, if no groundwork for that gets laid (groundwork like, I’m 64 years old and this is my last chance to bail if I really want a different kind...

https://medium.com/@emily-jennings/working-through-self-loathing-b07db7d30d5

https://medium.com/mystic-minds/your-twin-flame-reflects-your-self-love-2826d1032082

https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/post/the-point-of-resolving-your-infidelity-situation?postId=41e88c55-63ad-4c28-9f88-4ee6aaa09c4c&utm_campaign=b6f10b4c-514c-46f4-a4bc-637c5b3b265d&utm_source=so&utm_medium=mail&utm_content=9c1b9d14-3729-4b02-a399-ec448d5bd7a5&cid=3eb97bf7-5fe5-4471-b923-bc3513e8f867

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sAsX74-xjqQ

(There's nothing funnier than a hillbilly tarot reader.)

If only it could have been, if only it could have been, if only it could have been …

Man. How many times have I thought that over the past seven years?

The problem with it is, it isn't true.

When w...

There isn't anything you've done that's unforgivable.

“Love is inherently free. It cannot be bought, sold, or traded. You cannot make someone love you, nor can you prevent it — not for any amount of money. Love cannot be imprisoned, nor can it be legislated. Love is not a substance, not a commodity, not even a marketable power source. Love has no territory, no borders, no quantifiable mass or energy output,” said Dr. Deborah Anapol in her book The Seven Natural Laws of Love as s...

This idea of twin flames being soul mirrors of one another definitely has something to it.

The weather finally cleared up enough today that I could do thirty laps in the pool, and while I’m swimming around I’m thinking about an online reading I listened to, about how twin flames can’t...

I can’t even express how painful the past two years have been ... understanding that all thirty years prior to that were nothing but narcissism and grandiosity.

The only good thing I can notice about that is that t...

TWO MONTHS LATER

I last saw my ex-affair partner on here on April 26th. As I told, after I posted “Let’s Just Kiss and Say Goodbye,” he came on in a flurry for a couple of nights, reading that and another one or two of my last two postings back and forth a few times—trying to figure me out, I think—and then stayed up all night April 18-19th, ...

https://medium.com/relationships101/your-guide-to-fearful-avoidant-attachment-how-to-spot-it-signs-youve-got-it-how-to-fix-it-fa4a10be902a

A rhetorical question, since the person in question has not visited in more than a month. I'm pretty sure he read "Let's Just Kiss And Say Goodbye," read every blog he had ever wanted to read, and, as requested, left here forever.

I'm not going to complain. I was just in this constant cycle of checking here, seeing he had been here, being thrilled he was still here ... and checking here, seeing he had bee...

https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/post/should-i-go-to-couple-s-therapy?postId=eb8eb429-0088-43b6-978d-baa232a18d80&utm_campaign=e2fd5ccb-7bb4-44bb-ad0d-1837a269dd97&utm_source=so&utm_medium=mail&utm_content=476663e0-f799-43fb-8c70-3e0b9f2d3e65&cid=3eb97bf7-5fe5-4471-b923-bc3513e8f867

So, at the very end of Cast Away starring Tom Hanks and Helen Hunt (and good grief, Mr. Big), Chuck Noland, the Tom Hanks character, newly lean from four years struggling to survive on a desert island, does this completely foolhardy thing, striking out to sea on a homemade raft, and is miraculously found and flown back to civilization.

The entire time he's longed for his fi...

Everyone experiencing a romantic relationship that isn’t going well: Quick! Pull out a sheet of paper and jot down all the ways your beloved and your most troublesome and hurtful parent are similar.

Something tells me the list will be long.

In my case: My ent...

After having this guy show up and read SO MANY BLOGS several weeks ago, and receiving so many card reading suggesting the person would show back up and want to talk, I went and looked at transits to our Davison for the weekend coming up ... because I know of something going on that weekend that would make it an opportune time.

OK, everyone can point fingers and call me an idiot. People get broken up with every day, and healthy people get over it in a matter of months, not years.

They also don’t choose to get involved with anyone married in the first place.

For me, the lure of my married guy held twin, powerful d...

Dirty Sally with Worthless, the mule.

So I'm watching a card reading last night, and this was said:

I w...

A question from two days on: Why did I even write this?? (Addendum written May 14th.)

Why did I finally decide to give up on you and chase you out of here?

Because I know that we're never going to spea...